4 Questions To Expect From Your Pre-Marital Counselor
Most couples choose to see a pre-marital counselor in the months leading up to their wedding, and we recommend you do this too. A professional pre-marital counselor can help you and your partner identify any potential conflict areas and help you develop tools to deal with them.
Counselors will typically ask a variety of questions during these sessions. Listed below are four of the most common ones. But, conversely, don’t head to pre-marital counseling expecting to be asked these lone questions - it’s an interactive session, of course.
The ultimate aim of every professional pre-marital counselor is to prepare you for what to expect as you begin your lives anew; that’s what we’ll do for you too.
· What Are Your Expectations for Marriage?
This question is meant to help us understand your individual goals and hopes for marriage. It’s also an opportunity for you to communicate openly with your partner about your expectations.
· How Do You Handle Conflict?
Conflict is inevitable in any relationship. And we’ll want to know how you and your partner typically deal with it.
This will help us identify any potential conflict areas and provide advice on the best ways how to resolve them.
· What Are Your Financial Goals?
Money is one of the most common sources of tension in a marriage. So, we’ll ask you to tell us about your individual financial goals and how you plan to manage your finances as a couple. This can help prevent money from becoming a source of conflict.
· What Are Your Plans for Children?
If you’re planning on starting a family, what are your thoughts on parenting? How do you feel about it? We’ll ask you things like how you plan to discipline your children and your expectations for their education.
Answering these questions honestly and openly with your partner is a great way to start your marriage on the right foot. You’ll also know and curb potential conflict areas and deal with them before they compound your relationship. And they will help you better understand each other and set realistic expectations for your marriage.
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While we’re professionals and excel at what we do, one of which is uniting couples in unique Las Vegas locations, we also offer services like pre-marital coaching.
You might think you don’t need pre-marital coaching, but consider the four main topics we’ll discuss, and you’ll agree it can be the determining factor between a happy and difficult marriage. Why do we say that?
We’ll discuss what true love is and what it entails. We’ll talk about what differentiates you from your lover and the three pitfalls that threaten the success of every marriage. We’ll also talk about other topics that might be peculiar to you and your needs.
A pre-marital counseling session will help identify anything you may need to address before you tie the knot. Click here to contact us and learn about our officiant packages, venues or locations, and pre-marital counseling services.